Carlos Xuma

Carlos Xuma, started as a natural, he didn`t have any problem with girls. Eventhough he had no idea why his approach was doing so well, he kept doing what was giving him some results. Unfortunately, after some time he turned into jerk. Carlos still had a great success with girls, but that was the moment when he realized something was wrong.

From being a jerk Carlos Xuma flipped to being a nice guy, which lead to losing all his success with girls. This was the Carlos` key moment, because he needed to re-learn all the things about girls, confidence, selfesteem etc.
In a general, by hitting both end points of a spectrum (nice guy vs. jerk), you master all the spectrum, which allowed Carlos to find the sweet spot, where he isn`t a jerk nor a nice guy.

In other words, Carlos Xuma has become an Alpha man.
What I like about Carlos is that he is one of the few known people who actually believe that men should be themselves in order to attract girls. No cheesy pickup lines, no pretending something you are not. Just pure you.